I'm just looking to confirm the obvious, but my wife has been telling one or two people that she wishes she had fought harder for our marriage . It's tempting to tell her she still can if she likes.

However, I feel that would be pursuit, and fall into the begging and pleading that I don't want to get into. Also, falls into the category of a relationship talk.

I'm thinking it is not a good idea to open this discussion even if she brings it up tonight. What to do, what to do??


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive