And that in the absence of any transparency on her part, I will reimburse her for 50% of reasonable family expenses on her CC.
If she fails to be transparent, why would you reimburse her 50% on CC?
I don't think she will come up with any plan b/c she doesn't know how and doesn't intend to lean. So just b/c she stormed out of your first proposal, why redo it? She's not going to agree to anything except be added to your current checking account. If you believe your proposal is the best plan for your family, then tell her it that or nothing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
