Thanks for the advice. I find that I can detach from his actions, but have a hard time when he starts a conversation not being a bitch (which is very out of character for me.)
You mentioned credit cards. Is it possible to have the limit lowered and at the same time my name removed from the account?
I met with a lawyer and if he decides to divorce there is really nothing I can do to hold up the process. In the state I live in if I fight it, then we will go in front of judge who will decide all and I would lose since I fought the divorce.
He quit therapy and I have been warned to watch closely as he is showing mental issues. This is not surprising since he never dealt with his awful childhood.
I am trying hard to stand tall, but sometimes feel like throwing in the towel. The girls keep me going. And until he is more mentally sound I feel it is not safe for him to have girls alone. I don't have anything to prove his mental instability yet.
I still am trying to find myself. It is very hard as the last 7 years all I have done is mom, work and wife.
