If you don't feel you're being helped then I would find a new therapist. I would recommend a counsellor that practices solution focused therapy. MWD principles are based on solution focused therapy where they actually help you find solutions as opposed to just trying to understand the reasons for your problems.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS