Nit, I struggle with this too sometimes. But I think doing this is pursuing and would receive a negative reaction in my sitch. You may have a better sitch but unless you can casually say it in a conversation so it doesn't sound like pursuing I don't know that it could help you.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10