IC today. Therapist thinks if I have well-formed thoughts about our situation I should feel free to share them with W now instead of waiting for Sunday. I have processed a lot and do have things I want to say...nothing accusatory... more along the lines of sharing some of my truths while still acknowledging/accepting/validating hers. But I know the DB way is to not be the one to bring it up, which suggests waiting until Sunday... and even then not saying anything, I guess. Although if she gives a move-out date, I think I will say a few things before going as dark as possible when you have kids. My assumption is that'll be when she gives me her exit plan... but I guess I don't know that for sure.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
