She freaked - "That's a contract - you want a contract." It was just the text (more or less as previously posted) with a list of allowable and non-allowable expenses.
And I was thinking to myself, given how you've handled the marriage contract, what good would another contract be.
Good point about detours.
We'll see if she comes up with anything by tomorrow. If she's unwilling to share income info, or anything else, I'm considering just reimbursing her for 50% of what I consider to be an allowable expense, going line by line down her CC statement. I'll continue to pay house/utilities myself. The rest of her CC can rot.
