I'm going through all of this right now and H wants 50/50. No way if I can help it. To hard on the kids to switch houses every few days. They feel like they have no settled home. At least this is what a number of psychologists etc. have told me. Currently we are doing what is called "nesting" and we are moving in and out of the primary residence. Not fun but easier on the kids than moving every few days. Have you looked at all of the options offered. They all pretty much suck. I truly think it's hard on the kids to be forced to pack up all the time. No one ever gets settled. It [censored] for you that your the dad and you are the one that's the good guy. Good luck!!
I hear what your saying but the wouldn't the kids benefit from seeing both parents equally? My home is 2 km from her current place so same daycare, same school.
Personally I think it hard on the kids when one parent chose to leave breaking up a family, taking away there privilege of having a wonderful father in there lives on a frequent basis.
Never noticed any stress when they are at my place, its only hard when they leave & I return them to her place. They are both crying hanging on to my leg not wanting me to leave them.. to me that is harder on them than having 2 loving homes they can enjoy equally.
These situations are hard on everyone, We all suffer.
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.
