Upwards - DB myself to happiness! #2

[Upwards]

You've got your boundary and it's been working. If you feel any negative emotion just pull back and stick to your boundary. You know he'll come to you now so you can answer the phone or not answer the phone depending on how you're feeling. You've been strong and disciplined to this point so stick to it and let him figure it out for himself.

Thanks Barrybran,

I think I just need to give him some space and let him decide now I think, i'll just not contact him and see how I feel if he contacts me. He's still asking me to go to work tomorrow with him etc so i'm going to see how I feel tomorrow.

I need to take a step back now and assess whats working and what isnt, going to read some of DR tonight & refresh my memory.