You've got your boundary and it's been working. If you feel any negative emotion just pull back and stick to your boundary. You know he'll come to you now so you can answer the phone or not answer the phone depending on how you're feeling. You've been strong and disciplined to this point so stick to it and let him figure it out for himself.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014