Upwards - DB myself to happiness! #2

[Scorp7]

Upwards, I can tell you're angry. You have every right to be.

I think some of that anger comes from the feeling of trying to control your H and realizing that you really can't. You're suffering and you want that to end, rightly so. You are tying your happiness to the actions of your H. He needs to decide what he's going to do.

IMO, you need to continue making positive changes for yourself. If you want to leave the door open for your H to come back to your M then that's fine but otherwise the only thing you can control is yourself. Keep working on you. If he's smart he will notice the positive changes you're making, that you're moving on with your life with him or without him.

It's something I'm still learning in my own situation but it's so true.