not sure how far gone we are...

[SeanB]

trying a different reply method in case I am not using the correct one...

Pretty uneventful evening as W went 'out' for the night. I was left with step son for the evening and we had a good time. I am sure W went to see OM in some capacity, but I didnt ask or pry when she told me her plans. Her behavior and lack of publicity about her evening on her Facebook page lead me to my conclusion.
i know there's a rule about" not spying", and this has been my biggest struggle...the detachment/disconnect. I struggle with the fear that if I don't protect what connection she has to me, positive connection, that she will permanently close herself to me and open herself to OM. I continue to DB and trying to GAL. The GAL part has been tough,but I keep trying to find ways. Otherwise I am full on 180 all the time while we are both in the house.

Today and yesterday she exhibited new behavior. She interacted with my content on FB for the 1st time since she DB. I took it as a small win, but hate that I can't just kind of close off myself to the whole site.

I keep making posts waiting for response. I realize I am still on moderation, so I hope I will see responses soon. I have really valued what has been said so far and read around the forums constantly to help me cope/plan/strategize.