Your not a mindreader....you seem to be getting better at knowing that

Its not cake eating if you are benefiting from it. If you start changing patterns and inconveniencing yourself because you believe that doing the task will make her like you more, and therefore, love you............THATS CAKE EATING!

If your W is anything like mine you will notice her "dropping the ball" alot more now.

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13