So here's something I'm really having a hard time figuring out how to handle...
Wife says she wants a divorce. There's been no discussion about it since then (10 days ago or so) until last night, when she says she wants just the two of us to go out and talk. Nothing about her demeanor suggests it will be good. But she still asks me just about every night to massage her to sleep, because she can't get to sleep otherwise, and she literally just called me on the phone in my home office and asked me to bring her coffee in bed. What do I say to those types of requests? Flat out no? If I told someone I was divorcing them, I wouldn't continue to ask them for ANYthing. I would be as kind and gentle to them as I could be, but not ask them to comfort ME in any way, shape, or form. Not sure what to do here...
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
