I'm not sure if he is pro marriage or not. He has helped me by giving me coping mechanisms to deal with the pain. He did advise me to give her the time and space she had asked for. She seemed to have got a out of her session but not in the direction I had joped as it seemed to make her feel better about doing it. he used the phrase to her that we were on "different pages" as I want to save the marriage and right now she doesn't. It frustrates me that she doesn't even want to try but I can't say that to her as its one of the things that used to get her angry
