Well, things have definitely gone screwy at work. Looks like by the end of the year there's a good chance I will be unemployed AND divorced...
Sunday should be interesting. Wife brought up our situation for the first time since dropping the bomb 10 days ago. She asked me if I was doing ok since we hadn't talked about anything since bomb drop. I told her I was doing good and that I hadn't brought it up because I didn't have anything new to add, and that I had been assuming if she had something to say at some point, she would say it.
She said she had been thinking the same thing, and that she had figured she would give me time and space to process things. I told her I had definitely been doing some processing, and then suggested we go out on Sunday for drinks and appetizers...and presumably to talk about "things". Her demeanor suggests it's not going to be anything good...she's certainly not acting like she's had a change of heart. Things have been continuing to cool down. Not sure in what the point of waiting until Sunday is, or why we need to go somewhere, but I'm just following her lead here. If she wants to wait until Sunday to talk and if she wants to go somewhere to do it, so be it.
Should be interesting. Guess the tact is to say little and listen a lot.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
