Hi, Hope. I understand the anger!! For me, working out helps process it through. I think about things as I'm running and once I'm finished it seems to abate. It also helps alleviate the depression. Hopefully you have an outlet like that!

Oh, 25! I cried reading that post. Thank you! I know he's in a lot of pain. He tells me all the time wink I need to stop assuming mine is worse.

I think that's what is so frustrating to me. I know he's in pain and I have to let him sway in the wind until he can figure it out. Meanwhile I get a front row seat to the show.

I'll definitely save that post and come back to it when I need a reminder. Thank you!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5