Logically, everything you have said makes sense and I have actually said those same things to a friend! However, implementing them into my own life seems to be my sticking point. I'm just so spent. I feel so empty and lost. I am constantly trying and thinking and reading. I just need to let go and live.

Now, who wants to take bets on how long that takes to happen...

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month