I'm reading divorce remedy. I'm applying the last resort technique since we already have divorce papers.

One glimmer of hope today. She said "if this doesn't happen I would like to continue having separate checking accounts(i'm terrible budgeting money, I don't bounce checks or go negative but i just spend spend spend).

I have been keeping my bedroom cleaner, but today i took everything out and did a deep clean. My daughter was amazed and my wife was still in shock (she just stood at the doorway when she was going to bed).

She also was in a great mood, laughing, we watched about an hour and half of tv together.

Right now she has an injured shoulder, they dont know exactly what is going on but there's a lot of inflammation, pain and loss of range of motion. I told her I would do the dishes and for her just not to move her arm so her shoulder wouldn't hurt as bad. She didn't fight back(she always has been very independent) and she said 'ok thanks'.

One question though. Since this is proceeding should I read further? or only concentrate on the last minute technique?


Me 38
Her 38
Daughter 7
Married 11 Together 16
BD 3/21/14
Moved out 3/8/15
D final 3/11/15