I do know my sitch is similar to others. I do try to pick up on pieces here and there and use them for myself, but there's so many stories, that it overwhelms me to be able to remember who they belong to! Lol! In the beginning it seemed my story was different, but I think I was just in a different spot in my sitch than when a lot of folks join here. I never meant to give the impression that nobody understands my sitch because it's different. I do, however, believe I don't explain my questions correctly the first time and I don't get feedback towards the right issue I'm dealing with- but that's all in my wording, I think.
But, YESSSSSSSSS! I need to let go of the anger. I'm trying. I've been praying daily for 4 months. Trust me, I'm doing the work! Lol it's just taking me longer than I want it to.
And you exactly answered what I was trying to ask: I need to have a better attitude about things and stop hiding from H. That's what I needed to hear.
Lost- I've never implied my H is abusive. He's not. But I just don't feel like hanging out with him, to which 25 posted her story. And as far as the 30%, I'm not sure most people on here with similar timelines would say they're getting enough out of the R with their WAS. I respect your rule of thumb, but I'm not quite there yet. Maybe I will be, eventually, but not now.
Thanks for the feedback, guys!!!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
