I agree with you AJ. The kids did nothing to deserve this, and one of the twins has some anger issues also so we communicate about that alot. I think the revelation this past week about codependence and detaching are a good route to take with my therapist. My next book will be codependence no more. I have DB and DR alomg with several other relationship oriented reads...moving onto self help books.
BD OM EA 9/2013 ICAYBDNLY 10/2013 I Move out 1/2014 Separation draft sent 5/2014 S13 S13 S9