Hi Twinmom- It wasn't before and I was willing to forgive and move forward. Now, it's more than just the EA/PA. It's the lack of respect and compassion for me. He knows how hard this has been on our R yet he is regressing instead of progressing. After I found out about the A, we remained in the same house, ML, need things as a family, etc. Right now, he has his cake and ice cream too. I don't think he will ever get it if he is allowed to continue w/o consequences.
