Wants to leave again after a month!!!

[DFE]

We had a talk tonight. He is clear he wants a divorce and wants to move out. He says part of biggest problem is my persistence. And if I wasn't sp persistent the first time he left we may have fallen back in love with me.

So what now? I am going to review his proposal of the separation agreement. It's very fair but I told him I needed a little time to think it over. He is pretty clear when we figure out the financial situation he will move. He said just let the hips fall where they may.

We have a trip scheduled with friends. He said we could go together as friends. I obviously want to go but it's hard. So seems like the way to his heart is a chance. He wants me playing hard to get rather in his face. So do I go ahead be seductive? Do I make him a little jealous? Do I look hot all the time?

Do I not go? He has made it clear we will not remain married but can be the best of friends. advice? He came home last time because he thought there was a man in the house. Advise???