I am pretty sure she is having an MLC. What now?

[nyk]

Yes I have. I entered anger management counseling last fall...saved my life. I have been working on not being as intense with my sons and they have noticed. I am now in therapy and have identified my need to detach, which my therapist agrees.
I put my college career on hold, and the projects-well I can afford them mentally or financially right now even if I wanted to. Hopefully they can be relaxation/hobbies someday like they were originally.
My focus now is on my sons and their grief, and of course my own head. I have many fears now and I will try to put them to bed peacefully...