" It seems some of the other boards are filled with people whose marriages ultimately failed. I just don't want that for me. "
Sorry if you feel like there's a PERFECT and GUARANTEED solution out there but there isn't. It's the way life is. On the flip side, I can tell you about the many people who have saved their M as a result of DB including my own. But irregardless of what other's situations are, only YOU can control your own situation. There is no one-size fits all method.
You're going to have to do what works best in your situation. If things don't work out, it's not because of the technique you use it's because the issues in your M were so great that one person doesn't think it's worth saving.
That's just the way it is.
So if you're willing to save your M, then you are going to have to go into this with an open mind. You'll have many people suggesting things that you don't think is right, but you should pay attention anyway. They might see something that you don't.
Are you willing to do that?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
