"I was going alone but she eventually agreed to go to see them but on her own at first he seemed to vindicate her decision to leave and "find herself" after their first meeting as she said she felt more secure in her decision since the meeting."
First of all you don't know if that is what he actually told her. WAS's have a way of embellishing things so that it turns into what they want in the first place. It's their controlling nature. Second, he can only go off what she tells him which you don't know. Third, he was probably VALIDATING what she was saying. Not "vindicating". You'll learn about that the more you read DB/DR.
"Maybe he was trying to gain her trust but it annoys me as he has been counselling me for weeks and knows I want to save the marriage."
Again, you don't know what was REALLY said.
"So how do I handle our session together considering I am in LRT mode at the moment?"
Cancel it and go by yourself. If you go, all she's going to do is re-enforce her "reasons" for leaving. Go to get your head on straight and gain back your self-confidence.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
