Strange days...

[trc2009]

I have to confirm what others have said here because my issues w/ W are largely due to past issues w/ me losing my temper.

To me, she lied about a bunch of stuff. To her, it was her not telling me stuff because she was afraid that I would get mad an lose my temper.

Now, I didn't lose my temper often (maybe 6 times in our six years together) but that was enough for her to be very, very careful about what she said to me.

Make sense? It took me a long while to really understand that an accept that she wasn't lying to me to be deceitful. But simply not telling me certain things in fear of my reaction.