Thanks for the ideas. So far the girls have no idea what is going on. They think daddy is in different room because mommy has been sick. He has always been a good dad til recently, he is being self absorbed. I still am not sure if it is mlf, or he us changing for OW, or mentally insane-truthfully I think it is combo of all. His therapist told my therapist he has mental issues, too bad he stopped therapy to work on lawsuit.
He told me after work situation he wants a divorce. It has made it hard to stay strong and standing.
Thanks for all the encouragement! I really appreciate any advice or ideas you can throw my way because at this point I feel scrambled