Also something worth mentioning re: me stepping out and letting OW handle H ...

He told me earlier that he's off his A/Ds. He's been on 2 for several years because of his anger/temper. He had said at BD that if it weren't for me, he wouldn't need them.

So, he's apparently come off of them.

Just a matter of time, I'm guessing, before that catches up with him.

Or, maybe I *am* the root of all his unhappiness.

He (And she) shall see.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014