I feel like he is making a big mistake by leaving his life and all that we have worked to build but you are right. Who am I to prove that to him? This is a path that I need to go down. I just need to build up enough strength to get through it.
The strength its already inside of you, and God or a higher source its leading you to find it....why other ways do you think you found this website? Why you think I said what I said? We are all one, the universe its connected and we all appear in each other life because thats the way the universe does its own business, what I am saying to you in my other post its something I didn't knew a few weeks ago, not even years ago, but a higher source feed me with that, I aligned myself with purpose...
Let me explain you this in a more visual way, in our first 9 months before we are born, we don't choose the color of our eyes, our hair, language, way of thinking, the relationships that we will have....and we are fine, we have everything that we need, in those 9 months a higher source or God has created us and has given us a purpose in life... Then you are born and your parents often say without words, wow thank you God or universe, this creature its beautiful...now we will take care from here...and then they take God's place and teach us all their fears and values that they had learned, they might even choose schools, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends and our clothes....and if we don't follow their beliefs we are rebels... And in their eyes we will end having a "wrong" life...
You are a beautiful creature made it to perfection by God, he didn't create your problems, he created a purpose for you but we often get diss aligned with that purpose....and then all the problems happens and everything keeps getting worst and wow a D and wow I lost my job...
Now what if all that you been doing its not searching to be align ? What if this D or other Quantum moments are being showed there to help you get aligned again? There is where you will find the solution an a life full of meaning, yes it hurts to go trough a D and its painful, but what if thats your purpose? What if the universe plan its to put you thru this to find the real meaning of your life? I am sure it is like that, and instead of "fighting" why don't just trust and let the universe take care? Once you listen to that inner call from a place of no EGO you will have that fulfilling and happy life that as you can see you have been looking for.
Getting D its not a legal procedure or emotional detachment, its a spiritual growth that will move you to a different place, some people keep getting D over and over because they choose to believe they have a way to make their lives better...
What if I tell you that your life its just great the way it is and that this D its just opening yourself to a plan that the universe has to bring you something much bigger that you can imagine....its clear your M wasn't a happy one, and your EGO will tell you to stay on it because fears flow around trying to figure it out how your life will be.....now, the universe and your higher choice has been listening to you and because of that its putting you through a D, because there is a much better outcome out of this...maybe its putting you thru all this to discover new passions on you, to bring you and your H to a spiritual place where you guys will have no more unsubstantial arguments and you both experience growth together inside a different marriage that has nothing to do with the old one...the higher source might be preparing you both to live the happier days of your life's together, something you didn't have before.... I don't know, I am not your higher source but I know you and only you can search for that alignment, by reading, by GAL and by appreciating the most beautiful thing you have, yourself...
Now what you choose? To go against or to go with the higher source? Let your higher source guide you, at this point there is not too more many options...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.