Bright, In my opinion, and only my opinion, your h is still in replay. He's not one of the nasty ones, but he definitely is still traveling the earth to find that illusive happiness pill.
Please to do not try to pin down the stage our h is in because there are some that do appear quite normal for a while and then when they are alone, the depression seeps in.
Accept him for who he is today and nothing more.
Focus on you and your job search.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
