I'm in, Wife's Out - Pt. Two

[trc2009]

Thanks guys. Things are incredibly awkward right now because we're now living together and we're really only a couple days into it.

The physical aspect (the lack of) really bothers my W. It's something I really hope she addresses in IC but it's on her to do that work. She has said on multiple occassions that she's still attracted to me physically but the thought of PC makes her ill. A real confusing thing thing for sure. Most people who are physically attracted to a person don't find it hard to have sex with that person.

She's afraid that we'll end up having a sex-less marriage or even worse, a marriage with no physical contact at all. Like not even giving each other a kiss, hug, etc. Cause right now, all of that is gone.

She recoils if she walks in a room and I don't have a shirt on. Which is funny because I'm in the best shape of our marriage and without sounding too cocky, I'm looking pretty good right now!

Important personal acheivement. I can now benchpress as much as I could when I played football in college. After only three months of working out. If I do end up divorced, I don't think it will be hard to find someone who is attracted to me!