That is what my IC advised yesterday as well. She needs to see me move on and forward before attraction can rebuild, if it even ever does. Many lessons learned here, and more growing and fixing to do ahead. My W told my family she still has "hope" for us. Hmmm...I don't read too much into that, it's too confusing otherwise. IF a possible R happens way down the line, would asking for truth about her A even matter then? Or is that a bridge to wait to cross if it ever even happens?
