I think you should definitely let him call the kids at night, but just say a "Here they are, I'll let you talk to them" ONLY. Tell the kids they can just say goodbye when they're done talking to daddy -- no need for you to get back on the phone.

And then stick to it.

My two cents.


Starsky

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