oh.. to add... yes! I walked in on him.... but, I KNOW (based on what he said about being comfortable), that he is in fact "doing it, in front of me"... intentionally.
Hoping that I will respond. Hoping that I will put a move on him (he is vulnerable, stated he wants contact, etc) . He's tossing himself out there for me... hoping I will take the bait.
I am not responding.
This is 180!
This, of course is mind reading... however, I know what he said and about his style.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)