oh.. to add... yes! I walked in on him.... but, I KNOW (based on what he said about being comfortable), that he is in fact "doing it, in front of me"... intentionally.

Hoping that I will respond. Hoping that I will put a move on him (he is vulnerable, stated he wants contact, etc) . He's tossing himself out there for me... hoping I will take the bait.

I am not responding.

This is 180!

This, of course is mind reading... however, I know what he said and about his style.


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)