own buz 25:mediation to reconcilliation, STFU !

[makingmagic]

I'm not sure what you are suggesting Bond... I did state, I walked in on him. Therefore, that communication was fair.

I do not bring up sex... he does.... again, misreading me. My words are clear.

He stated that he is vulnerable right now (possibly to get me to respond with a desire to fulfill his needs in place of him seeking it elsewhere).


My posts are accurate, honest and "as it is"... they are not intended to be vulgar. Sorry, if I am offending anyone.

In your mind.. I am wanting the sex and am prodding... thats not the case...but, you won't believe me.

Where am I pushing to make decisions? or not listening or validating... I listen to him ad nauseum... I understand this is his MLC... he even asked the other day if he was having MLC... I nodded. I am not pushing him to decide anything... he repeats over and over that "he doesn't know"... I respond with "I'm not asking anything"!! I have taken R talks "off the table". I do not want to push him in any direction. He needs to decide what he wants....Therefore I am not... you are just choosing to not believe me.

I do not want someone who I have to drag into a R, or commitment.

I think his "i dunno" comments are real because I represent commitment... and the questions are in his own head!!