I was just catching up on your thread. Artsy is spot on with the IC assessment. Yes, it is painful and very difficult for your d to get the short end of the stick. Look at it this way, that's all on your h. He can never get this time back with his d and the nature of his relationship with his d is his issue-not yours. You on the other hand can cherish this time with d and develop this unbelievable bond.
Hang in there. It IS a new day:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer