I think it actually shows some depth in your H. These are babies who need stability.
During our conversation, it felt like I was talking to my old H. While he said a few things that made me shake my head, there were no signs of that guy who said that "the novelty of having children wore off after S5 turned a year old." He seems dedicated to spending as much time possible with them and to making sure that we are all taken care of financially. He continues to say that he wants us to be able to stay in our house, if that is what I choose. I was concerned due to his new rental payment (which is almost as much as our mortgage...yuck) but he assured me that we would make it work.
I honestly believe that our sweet children saved my H from the destructive path that he was on. Over the past few months, they have provided him with the love and happiness that he was not getting from his nights out partying. They have provided him with motivation to work on himself to become a better person and father. It is a sharp contrast to where my H was last year.
