Wow, that's a jump. I'm assuming when you got married it was a happy occasion and your family was invited and wanted to travel to share in that. You're in a negative space right now, who knows what your future holds.
I've seen even bigger weddings the second time. It truly depends on the people involved.
Marriage is a business contract, that's the only purpose of the legal marriage certificate.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss