Well an opportunity came up to mention it so I did, told him that I would love to carry on building on our friendship and see what happens but i'm not willing to do it whilst he's still in contact with OW - we had a long convo about it & I explained how I felt about it etc. He said he's not seen her for weeks but does talk to her and he understands & respects me for speaking out, he said he'll "sort it" so when I asked what that meant he said he's been thinking about doing it anyway, I told him that I wanted him to do it because HE wants to and not because he's under pressure from me then said i'd leave it with him.

What do I do now - Just leave him to it & see if he tells me he's cut contact?


Divorce Final: Oct 2014

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