"He has mentioned f-buddy situations and how he doesn't see how that could work, as one is always wanting more, then getting hurt."
this is simply him gauging your interested in being his f-buddy.
so was his pissing by you and "accidentally" giving you a full frontal.
you can stop with the "possibly"s and maybes, your insisting on non-committal is causing you to lose clarity of the situation.
both of you are playing so many word games with each other, so much "truth based" BS, which in my opinion is probably what got you both here in the first place. just try some straight truth without all the gray you insist on adding, i think you'll find it refreshing.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
