Yes... I see that he wants sex.... he could be having sex elsewhere, but hasn't. He has chosen not too. He is possibly interested in sex with me, but keeping his back door open. I know he is not ready to commit. I know I cannot just have sex, as I would have expectations. I think he is concerned that I would be hurt, so he wants to be certain he wants more from me too. He has mentioned f-buddy situations and how he doesn't see how that could work, as one is always wanting more, then getting hurt.
GM.. I am not a liar. I am not interested in lying to him. I have told him about all other shopping trips. I have not withheld any of my outings from him in the past, even if it meant hearing the wrath. I have always been truthful. I was not looking for a loop hole either. My point about not shopping THIS time, is that its busy season and I didn't want him to feel that I was avoiding my business responsibility for a shopping trip.
GM... I know I cannot make him want more... that will have to come from him (If he wants more with me).... I know he used to think that I wanted more, but now he has dropped some suggestions and comments that he doesn't know what I want. I think, its possible that is why he may be more interested in R talk, to see where I stand. It sure feels like thats what he is doing.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
