Go with your gut on this one. You're right, they're way too young to have any understanding of what this all means. If both parents are willing and able to do this to keep the kids OK right now, more power to you.

I think it actually shows some depth in your H. These are babies who need stability.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss