Awesome card from your mom. I think that our family wants to protect us and for us to stop hurting, so they say D and move on and get away from that person...but we know the reality is that more/different pain will be involved.
I am fortunate to have family and friends that encourage me to fight for my family. I am becoming indifferent to H comments. They no longer have that gut punch effect. I am used to the lies and bull chit. I hope his counseling will help him heal.
Did you do anything for yourself today? Treat yourself Julie-you deserve it. The phone call from your H was a nice gesture. The little things, right?
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014