Both accounts we have are joint accounts. I have passwords to one and checks to both, he has passwords to the other. We did it this way when he was overseas so he could pay off bills and such. He continues to pay the mortgage and a few other bills from one account and transfers money to "my" account to take care of the household. It has worked out well. When I need additional $$ for things he transfers me additional money. My issue right now is not that he won't give me the $$ needed. It's more about me wanting to approach the subject differently. Maybe there isn't a different way. I guess just wanting to 180 how I handle the situation a little bit.

J


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since