I'm sorry you are in a difficult spot. DETACH! I don't know your financial situation so it never hurts to make sure you protect yourself. Don't initiate conversations-it won't get you anywhere.
Focus on you. If he wants a d and he doesn't, let him do the work. Get busy taking care of yourself. You can't fix him.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer