IMHO perhaps it would be best to check with H and set up a system of putting money in a joint account for running the house. If he won't agree its best to ask a L for advice on how to accomplish this.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14