Question here.

ye21 brought this up to me so I need to understand it better,

Before our S, Before even the room mate speech, my W and I were lying bed and bickering a bit back and forth about what I cant recall. Anyway, W says you/we(TBH, I cant recall her exact words either) are so co-dependent. This struck a chord with me because way back in my college days a good female friend of mine told me, while we were discussing my woman troubles, you are co-dependent, stupid me I didn't ask what that meant because I didn't want to sound dumb.

When my W said it I also didn't ask, again not wanting to sound dumb. Boy, I really am regretting that right now.

Can someone give me the correct definition and an example maybe? I think there is a book out on the subject anyone know what the title is?


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014