Well... I think I can safely assume how my wife's lunch date with her friend went. Things sure got cool around here right quick.
I think I need to assume, no matter what, that the other shoe is going to drop.
GAL has been difficult because of our work schedules and how often I'm at home with the kids, but I've been in touch with a couple of old friends (wife specifically mentioned the other day that she was mad at me for neglecting my friends) and wife knows I have pending plans with them.
180's are tricky here too, because W says the problem isn't anything I'm doing/not doing now, it's her resentment regarding the past...and that something is "just missing".
I think my number one priority is going to be getting out of the house on my own three nights a week... even one would be a good start.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
