Oh, he asked me if he will need to take over the business credit card reconciling for his expenses. I have a separate credit card that I opened for business and charged my business expenses to. He used our joint card for his expenses, but the bill came to my house, so I reconciled it in our business software and printed checks. This is another thing he is separating. This card is on both our names, so I don’t know what I should tell him. I liked to keep it under control by myself. The point is he is trying to take control of his business part, so I don’t have to do the work for him. He said that we can talk about it when he comes to pick up the drums before driving back to work.

Again, it sounds like is back to reality, trying to take care of business and thinking clearly. But, he is still moving away from me. Did this man ever love me? It seems to be so easy for him to detangle his life from me.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state